AS A CHRISTIAN, YOU DON'T CHOOSE WHO TO LOVE, YOU CHOOSE WHO TO MARRY.

Love is a command that is given to all Christians. Jesus said, "love one another". There is no place the Bible said each other.

Love is an obligation and a debt each and everyone of us, owe everyone.

You are required as a Christian to love both those that look good to you and those who don't appeal to you.

Many do not understand what love truly is.

Love is sacrifice. Love is not a sweet feeling. True love is painful because most times those you love actually don't deserve it.

The role of special love; love of attachment, responsibility and ownership is only permitted in marriage, not in relationship.

Love everyone equally, but choose your partner based on understanding of your purpose and the consequent purpose the person will serve in your life.

Most people marry who they like, not who they love. Just because your libido goes high for him or her does not mean that you are in love.

So don't be blinded by how you feel now and misinterpret it as love.

"For God so loved the World that he gave his only begotten son"

Love is giving and being given continually.

I warn you now that you are single, but many of you think you know better.

What we call love is not love, and almost 95% of marriages are built on feelings, emotions, likeness, selfishness and self centeredness.